lilcliffy wrote:Your family and day-to-day life situation resonates.
I have 4 children at home- ranging from 4 to 15 years old.
Our 5-year-old son is autistic and non-verbal- he requires 24/7 supervision- and. not the kind of supervision that is easy to come by. I have no problems asking my two older children to look after him when I am out in the barn doing chores- but, it is too much to ask of them for me to leave them for a few hours.
Through the week I ski most every day- often after all the chores are done- and often after the little ones are asleep- so that I am sure my wife is also getting a little break!
I am VERY fortunate that I can ski right from my doorstep- and there are endless miles of beautiful forested hills and fields to explore!
During the week my tours are definitely XC-oriented- I typically get out for up-to an hour of a daily ski.
My more adventurous and downhill-oriented tours have to wait for the weekend as I need a few hours to properly access them and truly enjoy them!
My wife and I now only get to ski together when Grammy and Grampy come on the weekend.
We too live off of one income- one of us MUST be home. But, we have also chosen to pursue and grow our little farm so that it is now offsetting our cost of living, and slowly becoming a profitable business.
I do not know what the future holds for my son or our lifestyle- I may well be tied to home until I am old enough thatI can no longer care for my son...impossible to know for sure! But- I am very grateful- have much to be thankful for.
What is most important is having the gear that allows you to just get out and fly- be able to fit it into your everyday life.
Your advice and support are both SO appreciated man; seriously. That sounds like a hell of a load to bear, and it appears you do it admirably with a bit of time “to spare” (lol) for skiing! That’s what I’m trying to do as we speak!
My 4.5 year old has an extremely rare incurable genetic disorder that causes blindness and eventual renal failure. As if that weren’t enough, at age 2 he was diagnosed with ASD and is currently non-verbal and extremely sensory sensitive. Both these things are amplified by his visual impairment. Because of this, Access portals as a parent are super limited, but when he’s happy it is a fucking joy to behold

we hold on to those moments as I’m sure you do to.
While skiing isn’t literally “out my back door”, I live in a semi-rural area and am fortunate to have an array of excellent nature preserves within a five-to-fifteen minute drive of our home. This includes three areas within a stones throw of my boys’ daycare center, and these have become my regular training grounds as a trail runner and will be the same as a budding Nordic Skier

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As for my experience, assume I have none, since that is basically the case. I snowboarded for over a decade and had some alpine experience prior but was never able to get beyond some sketchy parallel turns on intermediate slopes in that regard. I tried XC skiing at a couple of centers in my teens and really liked it. I actually felt it Came quite naturally. But that almost was 2 decades ago lol. So for all intents and purposes I’m brand new and wet behind the ears.
As far as my Initial report, I don’t want you—or anyone else—to get the impression that I’m overly frustrated already. I made it out again today (more on that later) and both trips have been a blast and extremely rewarding. I’m just the type that likes to learn to do things WELL, and I hold myself to a high standard in any discipline I practice. But since I’m doing this totally solo I’ve got no one to show me the ropes. That results in a lot of “am I doing this right?” And “is this the way it’s supposed to feel” etc etc. But ultimately I’m confident in my ability to figure this shit out with enough Ski time. As you say, that’s TRULY the name of the game.
Having discovered this little 8-9:30AM “tiny tour” pocket in my mornings, I think I’ll do my best to get out there as much as the conditions and my schedule allow. It’s really quite an invigorating way to start the day!
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